Girl in gym bag identified as Nurin Jazlin Jazimin

1 p.m.

My condolences to the grieving family :(

Eight year old Nurul Jazlin Jazimin went missing on August 20, 2007 after going to a night market near her house in the Wangsa Maju. She was last seen being dragged into a white van, and the police are enhancing footage caught on cctv installed nearby.

On the morning of September 17, 2007, a gym bag was left in front of a shop lot in PJS 1/48. It contained an unidentified child’s naked body stuffed in a foetal position.

At that time, Nurul Jazlin’s parents denied that the child was their own missing one.

My source is from crime reporters on the beat (or at the forensic labs, to be specific). More updates as soon as various news agencies and papers publish them.

Update: 1.54 p.m.

BERNAMA just ran short news:

Test Confirmed Body In Bag Is Of Nurin

KUALA LUMPUR, Sept 20 (Bernama) — DNA test confirmed that body stuffed in a sports bag on Monday at a shophouse at Jalan PJS1, Petaling Jaya Utama as that of Nurin Jazlin Jazimin, 8, who had gone missing a month ago, said Petaling Jaya OCPD ACP Arjunaidi Mohamed. — BERNAMA

And also at The Star.

Update: 2.40 p.m.

News update on NST here. According to the report, Nurin’s parents were already informed of the DNA findings.

Our heartfelt condolences to Nurin Jazlin’s loved ones

To tell the truth, I am in two minds over blogging more about Nurin Jazlin. On one hand, I am aware of the public scrutiny on this high profile case, which is undoubtedly taking its toll on Nurin’s family. I wouldn’t want to be in a quarter of their shoes at these trying times. I am not a journalist nor am I in the print media business, but I can understand how easy certain situations can turn out to be a media circus.

On the other hand, it is difficult not to feel affected by Nurin’s case. We are fathers, mothers, brothers, sisters, grandfathers, grandmothers, uncles and aunties to our loved ones. The entire nation is shocked and outraged over the psychotic brutality dealt to Nurin Jazlin (and the couple other kids who were attacked in the same manner, though escaped with their lives intact), and are naturally concerned with the development of this tragic case. We want our streets to be safer for us and our kids. We want the perpetrator(s) to be traced, caught and be punished accordingly. We are reminded to always be vigilant against shifty and shady characters around us, even if they are part of our families, or they are our neighbours, or just a random stranger across the street. We cherish those whom we love and try our best to protect them, and we grieve alongside those who were robbed of the opportunity to do the same.

A side note: according to a blog set up by Nurin’s uncle as part of their efforts to search for Nurin Jazlin, Nurin’s parents; Jazimin and Norazian were asked to identify the body for a second time yesterday. To quote:

In the inspection, all family members were positively sure that the body did not resemble Nurin.

We left the Mortuary at around 4 pm. Not once had the police told us that they think the body was Nurin nor asked the the family to bring back the body for burial. ( Blog post link )

The press conference issued by the Selangor police chief was held at 2.30 p.m. yesterday. Nurin’s family found out the results of the DNA tests via the TV3 8 p.m. news.

What was more horrified was the statement saying that the parents had refused to accept the DNA results given to them in the afternoon, when in actual fact, the parents were not told of anything of that sort.

More horrified was the statement that the parents might have a hidden agenda for not agreeing to the DNA results and the whole tragedy could be related to problems with “loan sharks”.

At 10 p.m. that night, Jazimin and his brothers went to meet with the PJ OCPD, who then confirmed the results with the family.

I think that unless police investigations call for suspicions to be cast on Nurin’s family, they should be spared from unfounded and hurtful allegations.

Meanwhile, Nurin’s uncle wrote on the blog that the body would be claimed this morning, and the burial would most probably be held after Friday prayers today.

Negligence charge ‘legal’

When I was much, much younger, my parents got us a bicycle. You know, the old school one with a small basket in front. Growing up in a single-storey terrace house meant that there was very limited space to utilise the bicycle. It was not something I was willing to give up; so proud I was of my ability to ride the bicycle well. So one day defying my parents’ wishes that I should never go out by myself, I took the bicycle out for a good, long ride. When I got home, I was faced with a worried, anxious, angry mother, and an extra long rotan.

If I had gone missing and found dead and stuffed in a bag a month later, would my parents be charged with negligence?

Parents (generally) do the best they can. Not everyone has the privilege of hiring maids and nannies to care for their children, keeping an eye on them 24/7 while they go earn their bread and butter.

Of course, in the case of Madeleine McCann, I have much sympathy, but also much anger towards the parents. There is a vast difference between ditching your three young children while the two of you have dinner at a restaurant (I don’t care how nearby it is), and thinking that your daughter went to the night market with her sister because that was what she usually did (and was told to do).

So I hope Datuk Seri Mohamed Nazri keeps all that in mind before emphatically exclaiming, “Law is law… we need to take action, nobody can slip away.”

KUALA KANGSAR: The possibility of the police charging the parents of murder victim Nurin Jazlin Jazimin for alleged negligence is in accordance with provisions in the Child Protection Act 2001.

Minister in the Prime Minister’s Department Datuk Seri Mohamed Nazri Abdul Aziz said: “Law is law …we need to take action, nobody can slip away.”

The minister, who is in charge of law and legal matters, was asked to comment on the statement by Inspector-General of Police Tan Sri Musa Hassan on the possibility of the police charging Jazimin Abdul Jalil, 33, and his wife, Norazian Bistaman, 35, for negligence.

On Friday, Musa said Jazimin and Norazian were being investigated for possible negligence. He had said they may face charges under the act if investigations showed their negligence had contributed to Nurin’s death. ( Story link )

Tuesday open thread

It is not easy being a parent these days. Especially those who live in cities and big towns, and both parents hold full time jobs to support their families. How can you ensure that your kid is getting the best education, now and in the future? How do you plan your family meals so that your children consume nutritious foods and not just some fast-food junk as per their natural desires? What about the stuff that they pick up in school, as well as over-information/ easy access to the Internet and various media? If you molly coddle your kids too much, they might turn out too rebellious come their teen years. If you give them too much freedom, there is a possibility that they could end up playing network games in cyber cafes all day and night long.

I do not have kids, but I am rather involved in the upbringing of my nephew, as we live in the same house. Just the other day, my sister told me that we should begin teaching my 2-year old nephew the difference between ‘boy thing’ and ‘girl thing’. A friend of hers, a homosexual had opened up and told my sister of his childhood — that part of the reason he is effeminate and a homosexual was because he grew up under the care of his single mother, and had used to play with his mother’s dresses and cosmetics and such, without his mother’s restrictions. My sister is not a single mother, but her husband works long hours, and I am a female living in the house, and my mother is staying with us for long periods of time helping to take care of him… So my nephew picks up a lot of the things that we do — primping ourselves in the mirror, wearing high heels…

I personally do not believe that there is anything wrong with being a homosexual. But it is interesting to note how in some cases, homosexuality can be stemmed from young, not picked up by parents because they think it’s funny to see their young kid trying on their high heels, or picking up the brush to apply some blusher, just like mama. But I guess as a parent, it is always one’s hopes to see your kid have their own families in the traditional, conventional sense, especially in Asia. The same goes for other things — if your kid is fascinated with knives and spend hours reading about them (or play with them without your knowledge), he or she could end up being the best brain surgeon in the world, or Josef Mengele.

A rather grim note to end, but how are you, as a parent, coping with the responsibilities shouldered upon you, in this increasingly demanding world?

Panel to complete video clip probe ‘within weeks’

PUTRAJAYA: A three-member independent panel has been formed to investigate the controversial video clip of a lawyer allegedly brokering judicial appointments with a senior judge.

Deputy Prime Minister Datuk Seri Najib Razak said yesterday the decision to establish the panel was made after discussions with Prime Minister Datuk Seri Abdullah Ahmad Badawi in view of the widespread perception that the standing of the judiciary was at stake.

“The decision was made as the allegations and speculations arising from the video clip cast doubt on the integrity and credibility of the judicial system. ( Story link )

Meanwhile, a Bar Council-sponsored march will take place today at 11 a.m. The purpose is to submit a memorandum to the Cabinet (specifically to the Prime Minister), calling for the setting up of a Royal Commission to investigate issues jeopardising the Judiciary. Now that an independent panel has been set up to investigate this case, I am not sure if the memorandum still stands, but I am very sure that the march will still take place.

The march will begin from the Palace of Justice till the Prime Minister’s office, both in Putrajaya.

The Great and Mighty Spirit of the Malaysian Bar

Yesterday the Bar Council organised a march from the Palace of Justice to the Prime Minister’s office in Putrajaya. You probably wouldn’t read much about it anywhere else but blogs and alternative news sources. Even if you did read it in mainstream media, your impression may have been that the lawyers ‘eat too full nothing to do’ and are ‘pawns of the opposition parties’ (who we know are incarnations of Dr. Evil.. -_-” ).

I wish to highlight an article written by the Bar secretary Lim Chee Wee, published on the Malaysian Bar Council website. I hope they do not sue me for not gaining prior permission to publish it in full on Monsterblog, but at this point in writing, the MBC site is down inaccessible. So, all for the greater good, eh? ;)

The Great and Mighty Spirit of the Malaysian Bar
by Lim Chee Wee

Yesterday was a momentous and magical day! I was inspired by the determination, courage, perseverence and strength of the Members of the Malaysian Bar who were undeterred by the roadblocks, the heavy presence of intimidating police and the rain. I would like to share with Members some of the highlights of yesterday which they may not be aware of.

From the day the Bar Council decided to organise the Walk for Justice, we were in constant contact with the press secretary of the Deputy Prime Minister who chaired yesterday’s Cabinet meeting and we informed him that the walk would be peaceful and that we intended to submit the 2 memorandums on the Royal Commission and the Judicial Appointment Commission. We were told that the DPM is sympathetic to our concern, did not object to the walk and would organise a representative to accept the memorandums on behalf of the Prime Minister.

Yesterday morning around 200 Members took the 7 buses from Dataran to go to the Palace of Justice. The journey was smooth until the road leading into Precinct 1 where we were stopped by a group of policemen who, through the Special Branch Officers who were at Dataran, knew that these were the 7 buses carrying lawyers and not sightseeing tourists. Our attempts to persuade them and phone calls to the press secretary, to allow the buses to continue in its journey did not bear fruit. We were told by George (the Treasurer) that other entry points were also blocked. We had no choice but to begin the walk from that spot which is around 6 kilometres to Palace of Justice. When told of this, the Members on the buses did not hesitate to come down and start walking. The policemen were surprised and watched us walk past them. There were other Members who were driving in their cars and they stopped to take on some passengers to continue with the journey.

The hats, fans, bottles of water and banners all came out and we soldiered on, led by Amer and Edmund.When we met a group of FRU personnel after a few hundred metres, there was slight anxiety in the air but we were encouraged to continue walking, which we did and we were not stopped. Members’ cars kept on stopping to carry some of us to the Palace, some of the Members who were carrying the banners continued walking; such was their determination and strength.

Shortly after we began the walk from the Palace of Justice towards the Prime Minister’s Office, we were informed by the press secretary that the police would request the Members to stop the Walk and that the appointment is cancelled. We carried on nonetheless. When 3 policemen wanted to speak to us after 1 kilometre during the walk, we continued walking past them. When the FRU personnel formed a line before Dataran Putrajaya, we continue walking and they backed off towards the main gates of the PM’s Office. We were then informed that the appointment is going ahead.

Yesterday, the Malaysian Bar showed the authorities how we can have a peaceful walk to express our grave concerns with the state of the Judiciary. Nazri is dead wrong to say that the Bar is an opposition political party. We oppose corruption and injustice. We do not oppose the Judiciary, in fact we support the honest and hardworking members of the Judiciary. We demand investigation into the state of the Judiciary due to allegations of corruption and the videoclip is but one incident.

I am proud to be associated with the Malaysian Bar, I am overwhelmed by my brothers and sisters in the Bar who walked fearlessly, I salute you. We will keep on walking if need be, and continue to knock on the doors until they open to truth and justice.*******************

Here is one of the many photos taken at the march; the photo below was sourced from Jeff Ooi’s site.

Lawyers march for justice

A fellow blogger, Lulu compiled a list of references to the march, which you can view here.

Nine killed as Myanmar junta cracks down on protests

I guess it is too easy to be wrapped up in our own cocoons.

Security forces swept through Myanmar’s main city Thursday, killing nine people including a Japanese journalist, and arresting hundreds more in a brutal crackdown on anti-government protests.

At least 50,000 people, many of them youths and students, swarmed into Yangon undeterred by the deaths the day before of at least four protesters, including three Buddhist monks, and repeatedly defied orders to disperse.

As the shots rang out, they ran for their lives, only to regroup and face down the might of Myanmar’s junta which has exerted iron rule over the impoverished country for more than four decades.

In six hours of chaotic protests, state media said nine people were killed and another 11 protesters injured including one woman. ( Story link )

Below is a blog post written by a fellow blogger a few days ago regarding the situation.

If ever there was a time to pray
by Erna Mahyuni

I’m praying that 1998 doesn’t repeat itself. The people of Burma have suffered enough and even if the junta doesn’t back down from rule, I’m hoping that at least they’ll restrain themselves from shooting into the crowd.

My time at the UNHCR seems so long ago but I still remember the stories. I remember the old man who was almost blind from being hit in the head with a gun butt. I remember the mother who had to leave her children with four different families, because no one could afford to take them all in. And I remember one of my dearest friends telling me he gets nightmares even thinking about telling the press what he went through. He still can’t find it in him to tell me his story. I still remember how his voice broke when he told me he couldn’t bear having to tell it all over again.

It saddens me that the junta tries forcing the Buddhist faith down the throats of the unwilling when Buddhism is a leaning of peace. So I find it apt that the Burmese monks are leading the throng, following in a path that Gandhi walked. That the People’s Party of the Philippines demonstrated. That political change doesn’t need bloodshed. That nonviolent resistance can work; that we don’t need to trade blood for peace.

I want so much to believe.

Yet, if this fails I don’t want foreign military intervention. I believe in the sovereignty of a country, for if we deny that sovereignty over its own affairs then we open the doors to unwanted meddling. Regime change by conquest is…just unacceptable. That it took an oil price hike to cause revolt is another sad state of affairs but maybe, the Burmese people have finally had enough. I just hope what they’re doing is enough.********************

It is Wear Red For Burma day today.

Learn Chinese

First of all, before I begin, may I just say that:

1) I am a Chinese and I’m not a racist against my own race;
2) this doesn’t apply to all Chinese, just most (of the ones I know, heard of, and watched on TV)

A friend and I were talking about my extremely cute little 2 year-old nephew and how his mum once said to him “you’re such a cute baby. look at that baby there. he’s so ugly”. First of all, on an adult level, that’s just bad parenting. Secondly, my little nephew does not need someone to teach him to judge others, as he will learn that when he’s judged by society as he grows older. And that would be in 3 years’ time, when he enters kindergarten and the social part comes to play.

you’re too fat.
… too thin (rarely happens).
you’re not a doctor, lawyer, accountant.
you’re still single at 35.
you’re still single because you’re gay.
you’re married without kids…
… or worse, not married with kids…
you don’t have a car…
… much less a house.

That brings us to another thing. That most are very judgemental, and dare I say this equates shallowness (if there’s such a word).

Before I go on, again, these don’t apply to all Chinese, just most.

Family members who have not seen you for a while (”a while” being weeks, months, years) will most likely, in the following order:

1) Ask how you are (occasionally) and promptly go on to comment on your physical appearance
“Wow you’re so fair. Your hair’s long now. You’re so tanned. You put on weight. You lost so much weight.”

2) Ask about your marital status
If you’re single, are there no potential girls? no potential guys?
If you’re with someone, be prepared to be put on the witness stand.
If you’re married, where are the kids?
If you’re married with one kid, when is the next one coming? If your first born was a boy, a girl would be good to balance the siblings relationship out. But if you’re Chinese and the first born is a boy, let’s hope that the second born is a boy too.

3) Ask about your job
Who what when where why how about your job.
Who are you working for?
What do you do and what company is it?
When did you start?
Where is your office located?
Why did you quit your previous job?
How do you get to work? How much do you get paid?

3.b) Ask about your salary
This is a personal incident that happened last year, asked by 2 people, at 2 separate occasions, weeks apart:
“So how much are you earning now?”
… enough to be comfortable…
“Yeah… so how much is that approximately?”
… approximately enough for me to survive comfortably. Why do you want to know anyway?
“Ooh I’m just concerned about you, you know, if you’re doing okay over there on your own.”

If you wanted to know if I’m doing okay aka my well-being, ask me how I am… if I’m happy here… if I’m coping with my job… if I’m coping living out… if I’m coping with life here. So it’s pretty plain isn’t it…

Happiness = money + beautiful physical appearance.

If you only possess only one of the 2 elements above, you should, if you’re smart, be able to obtain the other i.e. plastic surgery if you have the former, and being a toyboy/ teaser if you have the latter.

*shakes head* I guess I can go on ranting, but I don’t think it’ll reflect very well on me. Ironically, only because I am only trying to reflect on my own kind, from my personal point of view.*****************************

About The Author: plastykcrayon would like to think that she’s a writer as she dreams/ writes/ talks about being one, not doing anything about it, and blames it on her muse by saying that he went on a permanent holiday, when in fact he’s locked up in a white box somewhere in the corner of her mind, screaming his ideas out, trying to overcome the other voices in her head. sounds about right.

Tuesday open thread

I have a few errands to run today.

What do you have in mind?

Rasa Sayang ‘ours too… we have right to sing it’

KUALA LUMPUR: Tourism Minister Datuk Seri Tengku Adnan Tengku Mansor has dismissed an Indonesian legislator’s claim that the song Rasa Sayang belonged solely to Indonesia.

He was responding to a report in the Jakarta Post quoting Indonesian House of Representatives member Hakam Naja as saying that Jakarta should sue Malaysia for its use of the song in its “Truly Asia” tourism campaign. ( Story link )

What next, Mamula Moon? ;)